Mama Making Podcast

Alison Beder Solway | The Miles We Run: Infertility, Surrogacy & Finding Strength in the Stride

Jessica Lamb, Alison Beder Solway Season 4 Episode 142

Episode Description:

What if the same resilience it takes to run a marathon is the exact strength you need to navigate infertility, pregnancy complications, and surrogacy?

In this episode, Jessica sits down with Alison Beder Solway—author of The Miles We Run, fitness expert, and founder of ABS Fitness—to explore her deeply personal journey through high-risk pregnancy, genetic diagnosis, and surrogacy after being told she couldn’t carry more children. Alison shares how marathon training became the unexpected metaphor for her motherhood story and why resilience is a muscle we can all build.

From advocating for your body to trusting others with your dream, this conversation covers the emotional highs and lows of fertility, family building, and finding your strength—on the trail and in life.

Main Topics Covered:

  • Alison’s high-risk pregnancy and HHT diagnosis
  • Navigating infertility and the emotional journey to surrogacy
  • The surrogacy process: what people don’t realize
  • Building trust, advocating for yourself, and finding the right surrogate
  • Resilience through IVF setbacks and loss
  • Training for the NYC Marathon in her 50s
  • The surprising connection between long-distance running and family building
  • Why resilience is a muscle—and how you build it one mile at a time

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This episode is sponsored by Collabs Creative - a digital marketing company supporting makers, creatives, and small business owners with all things digital and design.

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